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Lim JingQi, 25th February 1996, Singapore
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Just some lecture, don't mean anything much((: (Look at title) When you love a girl, always tell her : I love you. No matter it's the how many times, or how many times she asked : Do you love me? Whenever she tells you : I love you. Tell her you love her too, sincerely. Don't need any other words to fill in the silence, it'll be redundant. 'Cos the three words means the most. If you don't love her anymore, let her go. Don't let her waste her time showering you with love and concern, and than you just skulk off to find another girl. And when you found the other girl, you than break her heart by saying : Let's break up. Or worse still, two time her. 'Cos this different set of three words have another entirely different effect. Don't act like a big guy in front of yours/hers friends, and order her around. She's willing to take care of you, be grateful alr. They'll put up with your everything, is because they love you. But that doesn't mean she's willing to be your maid. Let me tell you this, she's not. And no matter what, don't make empty promises. However insignificant the promise is, it still means a lot to her. 'Cos a lady wants a shoulder to support her, cry and lean on. If you can't even fulfill little promises you made to her, Then how do you expect her to rely on you with secure mind? When she tells you things from the bottom of her heart, Even if you disagree. Don't correct her or point it out to her. If not how is she going to trust you in the future and let you in on her little secrets? Never play your video or computer games when you're suppose to be with her. She'll feel left out , i'm sure you won't want her to feel inferior to a computer? And don't don't be such an idiot and continue facing your computer even if she says she's fine. Remember, she's not. You don't ask her out to watch you play games. And when it's the period of time for ladies, no matter what. Try your best to put up with her regardless of how unreasonable she is. Never show that you're pissed or unhappy. Compromise, but ofc, the ladies will also have a limit. Please stay faithful, don't envy people in the past who can have more than 1 wives. She treated you as her only one, and she hope you regard her as the only one too. Don't care for other ladies more than you care for her. Women are sensitive creatures, is not that she don't trust you. It's that she cares too much about you. And she hope you do too. That's why there are loads of foolish ladies who tries to make her man jealous with stupid actions, just because they want and are seeking YOUR attention. No matter how motherly, how feminine or how mature a lady seems to you. Deep inside, there's a child living in her. Don't always expect her to take care of you, understand you, compromise, and let her world revolve around you. How she wishes to be able to throw a tantrum like a child to tell you how she feels exactly. So that there's someone to dote on her and love her like she's a child. And not the other way round. When you hurt her or did something wrong. Be a man and admit it to her, apologise too. Don't make her cry. Sometimes, you just have to put aside your so called dignity, It'll heal her and make her happy. Don't say you'll change but yet you do it again. A woman can forgive you once or twice for the same mistake, but never thrice. And when she's at her lowest, comfort her and give her warmth. Protect her and teach her how to move on when she don't know what to do. Love her for who she is, Don't expect only the best from her. There's nobody perfect, and if that's your criteria. You'll never find a woman you love. Accept her weakness, don't leave her in the lurch when she needs you. Be her prince charming, her knight, her hero. Save the damsel in distress. Never be unfaithful, don't betray her. Don't change your girl like you're changing clothes. |